True kinda inconsiderate to assume steels gender

Every single latin language has gendered language. For an example, I'm portuguese, which means that in my mother tongue all nouns, and, by extension, (almost) all adjectives and all prepositions are also gendered. For an example:

"That woman is very angry."
"Aquela (that but female) mulher (woman) está (is) muito (very) zangada (angry, but feminine)."

"That man is very angry."
"Aquele (that, but masculine) homem (man) está muito zangado (angry but masculine)."

The gender of the nouns involved determines the gender of the preposition and adjectives, which makes the language pretty hard to learn, but also immune to xes and xirs.

They didn't.

You don't need to melt completely. If you lose integrity it still collapses because it can't support as much as it should, as much as it's calculated to carry.