I agree that being attracted to something is not a choice, but what to do about it is something you can choose. There are people that can withstand many things by the power of their will. Things like walking on charcoal, being fakir, or climbing the Mont Everest. All those things require great willpower. Point is that anything you are attracted to you can resist. Bad thing is when you have to resist a beautiful women because they have badass husbands or boyfriends!
I know that at first this looks like I support gay, and their pride parade, but you could consider me to be a homophobe who supports "a**hole parade" like this one in Belgrade, but I don't support violence against anybody :
My point is that everything is a matter of choice. Everybody should be more then genetics, destiny, society, or anything else wants them to be! Problem is that the choices are not always easy, but we make them and that is who and whatever we are!
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