http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNs2Dk1JPzM

by the "for feminists it's ..." statement I wanted to express that feminists don't hate men or sex, because on hugelol the expression "feminazi" is used often for an overradical and dumb kind of feminism (and I never ever met or talked or read something of someone who really is as dumb and radical as some hugelolers say they are) I didn't clearly express what I wanted to say and I apologize for that.
Plus: The statement should not only include heterosexual couples but also sexual partners no matter of sexuality and gender.

I put the apples in the apple sauce. If you know what I mean... If I know what I mean....

and "the video wasn't his idea" ... well he was in it and it was his song.

for feminists it's important that the man and the woman both have a consent about having sex with each other or not. even the title talks about "blurred lines", so it is not sure, if (in this case) she really wants it. the song is a bit ambivalent, because all he does is interpreting her actions, so he could be right, but maybe he's wrong and she doesn't want it. the message is: if you have the littlest clue that she might want it, she wants to sleep with you. and that's problematic because it would be easier to talk clearly to each than just assuming that the other person wants it, since let's say he/she smiled at you or something.

in which episode did that happen?

Elizabeth Banks