omnia_est_nihil · 1 points ·
for me it did, I was also a lonely one, no friends, always the guy who wasn't invited and therefore I never left the house. but when I turned 16 I realised that being lonely isnt something that just goes away by doing nothing. from then, i started to change piece by piece. for starters, the clothes and haircut, i got rid of my beatle like haircut and took some more modern coupe. I always wore cheap easy wearable clothes, but i threw those away and finally bought some nice clothes. these two things already gave me a big self esteem boost. every morning i started with a meditation which helped me to arrange my thought so i wouldnt be such a daydreamer. I'm not saying that i changed my personallity, on the contrary, I didn't change my personallity at all. I changed the way I interact with the world, because the world will never change the way it interacts with me. now i'm 20, got a big group of very good friends, got a hot 'n sweet boyfriend and am more social then ever. on my 15th, this was all i ever dreamed about.
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