I understand the point of the original post, but I was replying to the guy who commented, I was not trying to comment on the original post. I do understand what the post is saying but i was commenting on the analogy, what I thought it implied and how I thought it was bad

In your analogy you are comparing having sex with a woman to unlocking a lock. This kind of frames you stating that trying to seduce a woman is similar to picking a lock, or moulding a key to fit it. Like a puzzle, you are solving her to hope you can have sex with her. That seems like a shitty way to view women. Also locks are intended to stop you from attaining something, but locks have no free will. A girl can also decide to engage in casual sex, even regularly, but she is doing what she likes. She is not a busted lock and you sleeping with her does not increase the quality of you as a key. There are also analogies in the same vein as yours that are equally poor but frame the man as a loser. Like using a pencil and a sharpener, a pencil that needs to be sharpened frequently is also of a poor quality. Honestly it seems like a poorly conceived analogy with very little thought put into it.