Just don't come crying to me

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realDonaldTrump · Verified · 53 points · 2 years ago *

BellacoReborn's mom. I love his mom.

BellacoReborn · Commenter of the Day · 33 points · 2 years ago

I get it, she's the best.

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 8 points · 2 years ago

Besides her obviously

BellacoReborn · Commenter of the Day · 44 points · 2 years ago

My mom. I love my mom.

null · 23 points · 2 years ago

Based mom lover

Huge_Fisherman · Verified · 32 points · 2 years ago

If you can't call your best bros when you struggle I feel sorry for you. wtf.

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 8 points · 2 years ago

I tried but years of bottling up prevents me from not bottling up and that's pretty much the same for them too..so we drink ..a lot..and put everything on the table eventually.

It's really healthy..

Bob_Bwaa · Early Member · 6 points · 2 years ago

That's... not the normal process?

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 1 points · 2 years ago

And what would be?

Bob_Bwaa · Early Member · 3 points · 2 years ago

Precisely! I thought it was!

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 1 points · 2 years ago

I'll try what from now on

Haegar · Verified · 4 points · 2 years ago

Wenn du mal alles rauslassen musst, und ein anonymer internet typ helfen kann, sag bescheid

BellacoReborn · Commenter of the Day · 2 points · 2 years ago

According to Tom smart people can deal with their trauma easily, I know you can do it!

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 3 points · 2 years ago

Nothing a little nap couldn't fix

datass · Hardcore Commenter · 12 points · 2 years ago

Being afraid of venting due to social norms is the least masculine thing you could do. Sure, some people aren't very receptive to it. But those that are appreciate your trust and honesty and will likely respect you more for being honest and not afraid to ask for help when you need it.

dotdotdotdot · Verified · 12 points · 2 years ago

ALL THE LONELY MEN IN THIS WEBSITE DM ME AND ILL GIVE YOU MY CELL PHONE NUMBER CALL ME WHEN YOU ARE FEELING DEPRESSED, LONELY, ETC

kosobi · Wise · 23 points · 2 years ago

Local horny men in your area want to know your location

Amianas · Verified · 5 points · 2 years ago

Backseat_Driver, cause he told me to do so.

[deleted] · 3 points · 2 years ago

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Amianas · Verified · 1 points · 2 years ago

He is my buddy!

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Amianas · Verified · 3 points · 2 years ago

Backseat_Driver · Commenter of the Month · 3 points · 2 years ago

And this time I'm not telling him to say it at Gun Point

Amianas · Verified · 1 points · 2 years ago

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FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 7 points · 2 years ago

All around me are familiar faces
Worn out places, worn out faces
Bright and early for the daily races
Going nowhere, going nowhere…

Migalhas · Wise · 4 points · 2 years ago *

TOXIC MASCULINITYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
No but in all seriousness, it's in our nature to dismiss the act of calling another person to hear our problems. It's not that we don't end up calling/sharing. And not much a problem of "they don't/wouldn't care about it". But that's my feel

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 5 points · 2 years ago

Hmm you aren't wrong but I think gender differences are the bigger part of the matter there.

Migalhas · Wise · 1 points · 2 years ago

Yup, gender differences in biology and chemistry but society has some weight in it too

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 2 points · 2 years ago

To some extent society is just three gender differences in a trench coat.

Migalhas · Wise · 2 points · 2 years ago

And it stands in a hallway

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FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 3 points · 2 years ago

Awww

GodOfMems · Hardcore Poster · 4 points · 2 years ago

I have a family you see.

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 3 points · 2 years ago *

Those are getting more rare

VladimirNadzor · 3 points · 2 years ago

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DARK · Early Member · 3 points · 2 years ago

While I have few friends who are mature enough to understand and talk to. I would rather not burden them cause so far that’s not the image I set out for myself to the people. Also no way I can talk to my family cause they care too much and will do too much and I do not wish to concern them.

Best option is go to a therapist

Someone1234 · Hardcore Commenter · 2 points · 2 years ago

Uh you know, swallow it down until you meet someone you can talk to. Then vaguely elude to it not going into detail. Step 3 is either drugs or pussy.

(Warning, may not work with serious emotional stuff)

SexyAdonis · 7-Year Club · 2 points · 2 years ago

I used to take walks late at night and listen to "when it rains it pours" from 50 Cent and told myself "man maybe it get´s a lot worse tomorrow and then you would wish it was today. Better stop whining" and it helped but nowadays luckily I dont have a "down" feeling anymore

antiskeltal · Pepe Collector · 2 points · 2 years ago

I mean, for the most part I wouldn't call and just internalize it, not because others don't care, but because I'm used to internalizing it. But like most other comments, it'd be my mom on the rare occasion i do talk to someone, or my dad if I need quick, three minute advice to fix the problem.

OGMontana · 2 points · 2 years ago

Our Lord and Saviour

falcomaster3001 · 2 points · 2 years ago

stop being a *** that has "no one" and be the person someone calls

HugeTrolReborn · Commenter of the Month · 2 points · 2 years ago

Uh, I call my girlfriend

zanck · 10-Year Club · 1 points · 2 years ago

give me "i close myself from everyone why dont i have anyone" vibes

Shadok · 4-Year Club · 1 points · 2 years ago

Tbh this is somewhat overexaggerated. I probably could talk to someone if I wanted you, I just don't because I hate it when people annoy me with their shit and I try not to be a hypocrit.

Donkerkorg · Hardcore Commenter · 0 points · 2 years ago

Imagine wanting to be a victim so bad you post such cringe of yourself on the internet.

Being a man has nothing to do with it. I talk to my family or my friends or my gf when I'm having problems. Anyone can do that regardless of their gender.

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 5 points · 2 years ago

Hahahaha more and more men get depressed and lonely now look at those idiots reaching out! Look at them and laugh.

Really though it's not like you have to be taken serious when you talk about your problems and depending on who you talk to you will be ridiculed or belittled.
Some issues you can't talk about with anyone...and that's why they'll never find the bodies..

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Donkerkorg · Hardcore Commenter · -1 points · 2 years ago

It's fine to say you don't have anyone to talk to and reach out, but don't act like it's because society is opressing your gender like a self-victimising little b*tch.

Monkiy · Pepe Collector · 3 points · 2 years ago

this is basically the equivalent of telling a depressed person to stop being sad.

wow, gratz people around you actually give a shit about you. so happy for you. i'll be in my hole if you need me.
jk, you won't need me, no one does.

Donkerkorg · Hardcore Commenter · 3 points · 2 years ago

My point is that you're not opressed because of your gender. If you're isolated and need someone to talk to reach out, there's no shame in that

FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 1 points · 2 years ago

Who but you said anything about oppression? Why are you building a strawman in the first place?

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FrenchPommes · Gold Club · OP · 0 points · 2 years ago

Disproving his own point in the same comment he made it.

mygall · 6-Year Club · 0 points · 2 years ago

Depression is an illness.

People who are depressed without mental issues, literally yes, stop being sad. Mental discipline is a thing.

As I always said and always will say, 100% of your problems that are not finance-related are caused by yourself, your ego and your attitude. There's no society out to get you, there's no general behaviour that you have to fall in line with. You choose to be resentful and alone, and as long as you fail to realize it, things will never change.