well.. would you like to?

I don't believe her.

she better have a sister named Anita

This is why I find the Tinder experience especially weird. If your message is too boring you are out. Girls want a clever funny entrance. Now the problem here is that everyone will obviously use her name. While it might have worked the first or second time she read it, it obviously will get annoying with time. Now as a male you have to somehow figure out a joke that people you don't know haven't used yet and she will find acceptable. If you google a generic joke and it just happens that she hasn't heard that one yet you are in luck. If not well then bye. So what I am getting at is that I find it super weird how potential partners are chosen. I believe that the partner is chosen by criteria that really don't show if the person is a great fit (apart from maybe looks).